Older guy swaps blow jobs with younger jock (Daddy)
He is definitely more handsome than me. I can't do anything about the second point, but I was wondering if there's anything he can do about the first. But after six years, we probably had sex three times last year. The cost was much lower than I expected, and I was able to pay in cash.
Buy some nice, flavored lubes instead and put them on the nightstand. Don't try to "fix" him; he's not broken, and convos about fixing someone almost always elicit defensiveness. I almost feel as if he is coming to counseling sessions with me out of obligation rather than desire.